WIVES– Want a date idea for this weekend that feels flirty, fun, and guaranteed to make your husband smile?
Send him a surprise date night invite that says…
WARNING: This date night involves a lot of BJs
And then reveal what’s on the menu…
- 🍔 BJ’s Brewhouse → dinner + drinks
- 🍦 Ben & Jerry’s → ice cream run
- 🎲 Board Games + Jammies → a little friendly competition at home
- ❤️ Bedroom Jackpot → let’s just say… end the night however you’d like 😉
It’s unexpected. It’s playful. And it takes almost zero planning.
All you have to do is text him this invite…
Bj Date Night Invite
No BJ’s restaurant near you?
No problem- make your own customized version!
Try:
- Burger Joint
- Burritos + Jarritos
- Breakfast + Juice
- Anything else your husband loves that fits the “BJ” theme!
That’s what makes this date so fun- you can completely customize it to fit your location & relationship.
Want to make it extra easy?
Our Spark’d app has an ai Romance Concierge that can help you create your own personalized date night invitation so you can include:
✔ Your spouse’s name
✔ The date & time of your date night
✔ You specific “BJ” activities
You can make it feel completely tailored to your spouse in just a few minutes.
Because sometimes making your husband’s day doesn’t require elaborate planning…
Just a little creativity, a playful surprise, and a wife willing to have some fun. 😉
BJ Date Night: FAQs
A BJ date is a playful date night where every activity starts with the letters B and J — think dinner at BJ’s Brewhouse, dessert from Ben and Jerry’s, board games in your jammies, and a flirty bedroom jackpot to end the night.
On this date, BJ stands for the initials behind every activity: BJ’s Brewhouse, Ben and Jerry’s, Board games and Jammies, Bedroom Jackpot. In everyday slang, though, BJ means blow job, which is oral sex performed on a man, and that double meaning is the joke the whole night is built on. We keep things playful rather than explicit here, so if you want genuine guidance on the subject, Get Your Marriage On has a full guide on how to give your husband a blow job.
Keep it simple and playful: play a couples game, cook his favorite meal together, or plan a themed night in. For more inspiration, browse our spicy date ideas and bedroom games.
No problem — swap in other B-and-J combos like a burger joint, burritos and Jarritos, or breakfast and juice, plus any spot your husband loves that fits the BJ theme.
Send a printable invite personalized with his name, your date-night details, and your chosen activities. Our Spark’d app can build a custom invitation in just a few minutes.
MORE SEXY DATE IDEAS
Reader Favorites
Our most-loved bedroom games & date-night ideas for couples:
