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“Date Your Spouse has TONS of FABULOUS fun and flirty resources to keep couple Date Night alive. Whether you're looking for some DIY ideas or ready-made resources, this site has it all!”

“Date Your Spouse is doing amazing things for marriages. They take the guesswork and grunt work out of date night by giving you done-for-you creative ideas for dates and connection in marriage.”

“Date Your Spouse is a great resource for fresh date and bedroom ideas for your marriage! You'll find practical, fun, and relationship-building activities that can enhance your intimacy.”

“We love the creative date ideas and other resources for married couples on this site. We've done nearly a hundred of the dates (yeah, we're Date Your Spouse junkies)! The best part is Date Your Spouse remind us to have fun while prioritizing intimacy and our relationship in our busy life. Thank you for strengthening our marriage, one date at a time!”

“Date Your Spouse offers an amazing set of resources for couples at every stage of their relationship. The date ideas, helpful tools and approaches to conversations and connection – it's amazing to see the power in what they are doing to help couples create the relationships they've always dreamed of with tools to make it happen!”

“Date Your Spouse is exactly the kind of resource married couples need to strengthen their Recreational Intimacy Pillar. Their creative, done-for-you dates help husbands and wives break out of routines, laugh together, try something new, and build memories. It makes prioritizing activities, fun, and connection, even in busy seasons of marriage.”

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Date Your Spouse, formerly The Dating Divas, was established in 2011 when our founder noticed her marriage began to drift apart a little. She and her friends started The Dating Divas to encourage each other to date their spouse every week by sharing creative date ideas!

We’ve since grown to a team of creative and passionate wives (and their husbands). We’re best known for our sexy bedroom games, creative date night ideas, anniversary ideas, thoughtful gifts, challenges, annual seminars, original products to enhance your marriage, and much much more!

Thank you for being a part of the Date Your Spouse family! We hope you find our many resources helpful in strengthening your marriage, one date at a time!

meet the people behind date your spouse

Becca, Date Your Spouse team member and marriage encouragement writer
Kate, Date Your Spouse team member and date night expert
Dan, Date Your Spouse team member and tech lead
Jessica, Date Your Spouse team member and relationship writer